Divorce can take months or longer to complete. During this time, spouses may disagree about paying bills, supporting their children or staying in the family home.
New Jersey courts offer temporary solutions through pendente lite relief. This legal term means pending the litigation. It allows a judge to address urgent financial and family needs while the divorce moves forward.
What can you request during divorce?
Pendente lite relief helps spouses manage important matters before the court reaches a final decision. Depending on the family’s needs, a spouse may request:
- Temporary alimony: Financial support to help cover living expenses
- Child support: Payments for a child’s daily needs
- Child custody: Temporary arrangements for where children live and when they see each parent
- Housing expenses: Orders addressing mortgage payments, rent or household bills
- Legal fees: Financial help with attorney fees and other divorce costs
Under New Jersey law, spouses can ask the court to address temporary financial and family matters while their divorce remains pending.
However, judges do not automatically grant every request. They review each family’s situation before deciding what relief makes sense.
How long does temporary relief last?
Pendente lite orders generally remain in effect until the divorce ends or the court changes them. For example, a judge might order one spouse to pay temporary alimony while the couple works toward a divorce settlement.
If either spouse experiences a major financial change, they may ask the court to review the order. However, they must provide evidence supporting the request.
Even if the court changes a temporary order, that decision does not automatically determine the final divorce terms. When issuing a final divorce judgment, judges review the evidence and apply the relevant legal standards. They may reach different decisions about support, custody or other matters.
Still, temporary arrangements can affect how families manage their finances and parenting schedules during the divorce.
How can you protect your interests?
Before requesting temporary relief, gather financial records and details about your household expenses. These documents can help explain your needs to the court.
An attorney can help you prepare your request and understand how temporary orders may affect your divorce. Legal guidance may also help you address financial concerns while working toward a fair final agreement.


